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Let it go

April 12, 2019

On the comments to this video, someone said music has a way of finding you when you need it. I was listening to music and heard this.  It made me think about all the folks that have struggled and are struggling with letting go. I got back from an extended trip and upon my return, […]

Till death us do part

March 9, 2019

Forgot where I found this: The oldest standard wedding vows can be traced back to the Book of Common Prayer, by Thomas Cranmer, Archbishop of Canterbury: “I, _____, take thee, _____, to be my wedded Husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in […]

Hurt

March 5, 2019

The human heart dares not stay away too long from that which hurt it most. There is a return journey to anguish that few of us are released from making.                                              Lillian Smith, writer and […]

I’ll be riding shotgun

February 13, 2019

And now a respite from all the issues we deal with day to day. This weekend we went for another drive and as luck would have it, another exciting opportunity arose, so to speak. Did you know you have to sign up for the premium plan to download videos?  So we will see how this […]

Hit me with your best shot

January 20, 2019

Ok. I think I probably bring a different perspective to this whole issue.  I think my ex was a narcissist.  I was an enabler. I was an adulterer.  I cheated. I tried to reconcile. It didn’t work. I filed for divorce. I have dealt with the aftermath of the affairs and the divorce.  I am very […]

Aftermath of an affair

January 14, 2019

I was going to write something sexy or my attempt at sexy anyway.  A follow up to my sex addiction complex. But I started reading several posts from those that I have recently followed and those that have found me. It is really amazing the similarities to our group from 10 years ago.  The pain.  […]

Am I Way Too Good At Goodbyes?

January 8, 2019

When I travel, I’ll listen to music on the plane.  Heard this today and it got me to thinking.  Am I way too good at goodbyes? Now don’t get me wrong.  I did not want to say goodbye.  When you are in a relationship that lacks passion and passion is important to one partner, bad […]

Moving on….

June 5, 2013

Oh, I’ve known for a long time that things were over.  SM certainly seems happy.  Her wedding pictures are beautiful with her smiling and him crying. LOL– won’t comment there.  I’m sure they were tears of joy. Facebook posts of the honeymoon. And projects galore.  She just changed her profile picture to one of them […]

OK…. Now I get it!

June 3, 2013

Thought I’d set the tone early. May have told you.  SM was in an affair when we started.  I found out later she was with him when we went to a conference.  Glad I didn’t try to take things to another level then and go to her room!!! I’ve been called a lot of things […]

LYM!!!

May 8, 2013

Let me preface this by saying I have had a few margaritas but I have been thinking about this a while.  Guess the song explains where I’ve been. When you do all the emails and texts and calls when an affair begins, it seems like it will never stop. You can’t get enough. You talk for […]