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Archive for the ‘End of a Love Affair’ Category

Till death us do part

March 9, 2019

Forgot where I found this: The oldest standard wedding vows can be traced back to the Book of Common Prayer, by Thomas Cranmer, Archbishop of Canterbury: “I, _____, take thee, _____, to be my wedded Husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in […]

Hurt

March 5, 2019

The human heart dares not stay away too long from that which hurt it most. There is a return journey to anguish that few of us are released from making.                                              Lillian Smith, writer and […]

Happiness. The choice is yours.

February 8, 2019

I chatted with a blogger friend today.  She used to wear me out!  Question what I was doing and was not shy about it.  What was interesting is that we shared a lot of common issues in our relationships and I think learned from each other and became close. I love talking to her.  I […]

I found you

January 24, 2019

I’ve quickly gotten back in the affair/infidelity world.  Seems my story and posts naturally track to those having similar experiences. When I last blogged, we formed quiet a network of folks in various stages of disarray caused by affairs.  My biggest challenger (and best friend) was dealing with her own issues.  We all tried to […]

Hit me with your best shot

January 20, 2019

Ok. I think I probably bring a different perspective to this whole issue.  I think my ex was a narcissist.  I was an enabler. I was an adulterer.  I cheated. I tried to reconcile. It didn’t work. I filed for divorce. I have dealt with the aftermath of the affairs and the divorce.  I am very […]

Am I Way Too Good At Goodbyes?

January 8, 2019

When I travel, I’ll listen to music on the plane.  Heard this today and it got me to thinking.  Am I way too good at goodbyes? Now don’t get me wrong.  I did not want to say goodbye.  When you are in a relationship that lacks passion and passion is important to one partner, bad […]

Moving on….

June 5, 2013

Oh, I’ve known for a long time that things were over.  SM certainly seems happy.  Her wedding pictures are beautiful with her smiling and him crying. LOL– won’t comment there.  I’m sure they were tears of joy. Facebook posts of the honeymoon. And projects galore.  She just changed her profile picture to one of them […]

OK…. Now I get it!

June 3, 2013

Thought I’d set the tone early. May have told you.  SM was in an affair when we started.  I found out later she was with him when we went to a conference.  Glad I didn’t try to take things to another level then and go to her room!!! I’ve been called a lot of things […]

LYM!!!

May 8, 2013

Let me preface this by saying I have had a few margaritas but I have been thinking about this a while.  Guess the song explains where I’ve been. When you do all the emails and texts and calls when an affair begins, it seems like it will never stop. You can’t get enough. You talk for […]

She’s backkkkkk….

April 29, 2013

    No, I didn’t go to the wedding. Although I did go by and see where it was being held.  Yeah, I know, sick!!  Didn’t think I could handle it. There were a few Face  Book posts and pictures.  SM posted a couple of pictures from the cruise.  I really had no idea how […]