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Let it go

April 12, 2019

On the comments to this video, someone said music has a way of finding you when you need it. I was listening to music and heard this.  It made me think about all the folks that have struggled and are struggling with letting go. I got back from an extended trip and upon my return, […]

Till death us do part

March 9, 2019

Forgot where I found this: The oldest standard wedding vows can be traced back to the Book of Common Prayer, by Thomas Cranmer, Archbishop of Canterbury: “I, _____, take thee, _____, to be my wedded Husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in […]

Hurt

March 5, 2019

The human heart dares not stay away too long from that which hurt it most. There is a return journey to anguish that few of us are released from making.                                              Lillian Smith, writer and […]

Oops….. I did it again!

February 13, 2019

When I cranked the blog back up, I intended to highlight what was going on in my life.  To document in some way what’s left of life’s journey. Little did I know that I would again get involved with those that are now suffering what my group suffered 10 years ago.  The pain and hurt […]

Happiness. The choice is yours.

February 8, 2019

I chatted with a blogger friend today.  She used to wear me out!  Question what I was doing and was not shy about it.  What was interesting is that we shared a lot of common issues in our relationships and I think learned from each other and became close. I love talking to her.  I […]

I found you

January 24, 2019

I’ve quickly gotten back in the affair/infidelity world.  Seems my story and posts naturally track to those having similar experiences. When I last blogged, we formed quiet a network of folks in various stages of disarray caused by affairs.  My biggest challenger (and best friend) was dealing with her own issues.  We all tried to […]

Hit me with your best shot

January 20, 2019

Ok. I think I probably bring a different perspective to this whole issue.  I think my ex was a narcissist.  I was an enabler. I was an adulterer.  I cheated. I tried to reconcile. It didn’t work. I filed for divorce. I have dealt with the aftermath of the affairs and the divorce.  I am very […]

Can you go back?

January 19, 2019

I keep wanting to move on to the good, sexy, passionate part of my story but I am constantly drawn to the posts of others who have and are going through the pain of affairs. As crazy as it sounds, I also had pain even though I was the cheater.  I felt pain for my […]

Aftermath of an affair

January 14, 2019

I was going to write something sexy or my attempt at sexy anyway.  A follow up to my sex addiction complex. But I started reading several posts from those that I have recently followed and those that have found me. It is really amazing the similarities to our group from 10 years ago.  The pain.  […]

Am I Way Too Good At Goodbyes?

January 8, 2019

When I travel, I’ll listen to music on the plane.  Heard this today and it got me to thinking.  Am I way too good at goodbyes? Now don’t get me wrong.  I did not want to say goodbye.  When you are in a relationship that lacks passion and passion is important to one partner, bad […]