Ain’t that the damn truth!! Then you add in the stupid things guys do and you’ve got a history that is hard to overcome. SM and I have a history. But lately she is making her own history.
She has been dating the good old boy who contacted her on R U Interested on Facebook. She has had other invitations but (so she says) has not followed up. This guy is smitten with her. Talks for hours. Wants to see her all the time. And I can see why. He seems nice enough. She just wants to have fun. Think he would marry her in a minute.
After helping her at her house, they have been out to eat with some of her family. He brought his kids/grandkids (another post) to her house and they played with her grandkids. All things I should be doing!
She keeps saying that she won’t tell me what is going on, but then tells me what is going on. She keeps telling me she does not want to hurt me, while reminding me I have hurt her, but she keeps telling me what is going on. I think on some level she is enjoying that part of it. Knowing that it bothers me and hurts me.
Yeah, love hurts. Many of our blogger friends have expressed their hurt. But it is usually the OW or OM expressing that hurt. Here the tables have turned– it is the MM.
Some have wondered if their MM cared. If they ever thought about them and what they had together. Well, I’m guilty. Hold your applause, please. Minimal gloating allowed. No piling on.
And this is not fair play!